Taking Control of Your Life: Who Has the Final Say?
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- Written by Maria Chambers

Have you ever had a relationship with someone who always gets in the last word? They always want to have that control of the conversation.
But it’s not uplifting from your perspective. You say something like, “I look forward to going to the ocean..” And they say, “Have fun, but be careful, you might get a nasty sunburn.” Or you say, “I’m going to treat myself to a nice dinner out,” and they say, “Be careful, you’re going to go broke.” And that’s just one of millions of possible scenarios.
This person may be a friend, family member, or acquaintance, but it can be frustrating relating to them because they are always trying to elicit concern in you, under the guise of wanting to protect you.
But somehow, it feels like there is a feeding going on. Your precious energies are tapped. You may have decided that spending too much time with them was not in your best interest.
But you may not have realized that you are allowing your mind to do the same thing.
Your Mind Wants Control
What is your mind telling you about a situation, whether it’s health, finances, or any other? Is your heart telling you what it would like, but your mind keeps interrupting with why it’s not possible?
It may not seem consequential, but your body feels that frequency that you give the most air time. Your finances reflect the number of times you have withdrawn or allowed others to withdraw from your energetic bank account.
Maybe you’re concerned that you may lose that friend who seems to want to pull you down because you don’t have very many people left in your life that you can relate to. And they certainly don’t want to lose you.
That mind that has been in the driver’s seat of your life has the same concern. What will happen to it if you decide not to entertain it anymore? What happens if you make more and more room for your heart and Soul to have the last word in your life?
You may have found yourself in a situation where you are at a crossroads. Where it’s do or die. Maybe you have reached the end of the line. You know you can’t keep doing the same old thing again, over and over, and expect new results.
But you didn’t realize that the mind has been stealing your identity.
It’s been claiming to be your soul. It’s been trying to impersonate your heart and your eternal self. It’s been attempting to resolve your health, well-being, and financial security.
It’s been the orchestrator of your life and trying to substitute its version of joy for your eternal self’s joy.
Time To Trust Your Soul
But it’s come to the end of the line. It knows it’s a losing battle. It can’t keep up the charade much longer. Especially in light of your new partner, the Soul self.
The mind really hasn’t done anything intentionally wrong. It’s just been given Carte Blanche. It was given authority over your life. And no man, woman, child, doctor, or government has that kind of authority.
The mind really hasn’t been challenged like this before. Or ignored before to such a degree as it is now. Yet the mind has ignored the heart and the Soul.
What the mind doesn’t yet realize is that it’s not being annihilated. It’s not being given the impossible job of creating your reality anymore. It’s actually being given an amazing opportunity to relax and to reap the benefits of a capable Soul.
And in case you’re wondering if that Soul is capable, look up at the night sky, at all those stars out there. Just look at this planet, with so many human hearts wanting to awaken.
Do you think the human personality, with its limited mind, can create any of that?
Your Soul wants you to trust her, as you did as that young child many years ago before you put your beloved soul away for safekeeping. Because it wasn’t the right time.
Now is the right time. Now it’s safe for her to shine through your eyes once again.
But first, before that can happen, there has to be a new pattern created. This means you, the part of you, the heart of you that is connected to your soul…..has to make sure the mind no longer has the last word.
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