Coming to Terms with Life!
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- Written by Jessica Woods

Without a doubt, many of us are struggling right now. Life can be challenging whatever the circumstances. Our expectations of ourselves, our lives, and even our deaths cause us to always try, try, try. Whether we are trying to be a better person, create more freedom or abundance, we are constantly looking for ways to improve our lives.
This comes at a cost. Pressure to succeed, to be successful, happy, richer, more beautiful, kinder, and so on…the internal and external messages we are receiving are saying we must get ahead, we must prove ourselves, we must be…something, someone!
The problem is this, we are always being given conflicting truths, which can leave us totally confused, and bamboozled with life. If only we could stop worrying, stay focused, and head down, everything will be alright. Really?
After many years of “trying” I have learned there is a much easier way, and I am sharing it with you. It’s all about perspective and it requires us to open our minds and hearts and believe that there is another way.
I asked my Divine Self “why is life so difficult for so many, most of the time?” The answer might surprise you, it did me.
‘In other dimensions, in the world of spirit, you exist now. You are not separate, you are a reflection so to speak, of what you are in this third-dimensional world. In the astral realm for example you have a Soul which is you, and together you have chosen to incarnate again, and again into this reality to experience different versions of yourself. You long to incarnate into the 3D to experience your own (Soul) creation on earth.’
Let’s put this into perspective; Imagine a young child living in the desert who has had no contact with the outside world. Along comes a tv, and the child watches it fascinated by what it sees. Snow. It questions, what is snow, what are the children doing sitting on wooden things and moving around on the snow, and what does it all mean?
The parents try and explain that the snow is cold. That the children are playing on sleds and having fun. The young child wants to experience snow, not just watch it on the television. This is what we do, we do not wish to create a beautiful world and observe from a distance, we want to get in there and fully experience all of it.
In this reality we can experience snow, its beauty, its coldness, we can feel what it feels like to be cold, to play on the snow, we want the full package. It is not until we fall off a speeding sled, that we can say we have done that, even at the risk of being hurt, or just having fun.
Our Soul may choose this lifetime to get down here and play in the snow, roll around and feel it with our physical senses, to have the ability to enjoy creation over, and over again, until complete, at which time the body dies, ready to reincarnate and participate in another life purpose.
So rather than fighting against ourselves, against our lives, against our Soul blueprint, we can accept that there are things beyond our control. That on some level, we belong here, that we choose to be here. That everything is unfolding exactly as we planned it. Our job is perhaps nothing more than to remember this and give our Souls room to actively participate by switching roles and allowing ourselves to become the observer, and let our Souls playfully shine.
In divine service
Jessica Woods x
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