My dear fellow humans, if you really wish to make a difference in this world, and be one who walks the talk rather than simply talks the talk, then you must ACT it. BE the one who makes a difference for your friends and loved ones, in practice.

A good start would be to:

NOT RESPOND IN KIND as an auto-response (or with sheer words of gratitude..) to whatever it is that YOU’VE been receiving from other helpful souls – if and when they find themselves in dire need.

Instead: RESPOND AS NEEDED. This is important.

Have you been receiving years worth of self-less support, perhaps tutoring and guidance, perhaps assistance with more practical aspects in life, or been continuously provided with free of charge skilled expertise, perhaps even therapy and energy work?

Then Give Back.

And NOT in unwanted advice, for they likely don’t need that, but in the energy form they MOST NEED in the Now. (giving back what you received probably isn’t your strongest suit to begin with, since that’s what YOU’ve needed, instead give back out of what YOU have in abundance – that THEY actually need.)

Do they need money (for survival or to meet a sudden crisis) while you are financially secure, then give them a truly sustainable boost of money.

Do they need help with connections to get a healthy new network started, then share the right contacts.

Do they have small children, perhaps desperate for a whole night’s sleep (including a looong sleep-in and peaceful brunch) in peace and quiet, then that’s where you should offer your unconditional help.

Do they need help promoting their business, then share their stuff, promote their unique output in the world, trusting that those who resonate will indeed see it. (Now, of course, this is something we should ALL be doing for each other at all times, always, regardless!)

Do they need a shoulder to cry on, then give them yours – without demands or personal opinions being added – unless specifically asked for.

Can you see that only when we give unconditionally – on the level where it’s actually needed – do we act in favour of another.

All else is self-centered pretense.

Go out and BE the love

1. you’ve already received

2. you wish you had received

and all of a sudden the world will be much brighter – and SO much easier – for ALL in it. 

It’s simple really:

• if someone has been there for you, making all the difference in the world at times when you desperately needed help, then BE there for THEM, in THEIR hour of need. In a real, tangible, actual-practical manner.

• if you ever wished for support yet got none, then, whenever you get the chance, be there unconditionally for others in life in general – strangers and friends alike.

In conclusion I’d like to add the following: if you know in your heart that, over time, you have been more on the receiving end than the giving end, then make an active, sincere effort to even out the imbalance.

Balance is everything, balance is Key!

Much love, and may you always receive help from a loving heart when facing challenging difficulties! 

Johanna